The Skilled Lover Method

Over the years I have had many men reaching out to me asking for support when it comes to intimacy, dating, relationships and sex with women. So, I created The Skilled Lover Method.

The Skilled Lover Method consists of 7 skills that will take a man from trying hard to being genuinely good with a woman: Self-mastery, Knowing Her, Consent, Communication, Presence, Play and Care.

A skilled lover is a man who knows how to discover what creates pleasure with the particular woman he is with, and who stays curious enough to keep discovering it.

Notice what is missing from that sentence. There is no list of positions, no stamina target, no secret move. Great sex is two people paying attention to each other.

Picture two men in the same bedroom with the same woman. One has a routine he has run for years, and he moves through it with confidence. The other slows down, watches her breathing change, asks what she likes and adjusts. The second man will almost always be the better lover, even if he has fewer tricks.